A couple more important things:
If you have little kids, get tickets in the seats, preferably up front. If they can't see, they can stand on the seats, since everyone will (should!) be standing. And put ear protection on them! (Like this: http://earplugstore.stores.yahoo.net/alnasoearpl.html)
It was horrifying to see parents dragging 6-7-8 yr olds into the pit at Wembley! It's dangerous for the child; plus, they won't enjoy the concert at all.
NO LINE CROWDING! If you are holding spaces for friends, it is common courtesy to let the people behind you know. And one person holding space for a dozen just is not cool. As some have said, if you want to be on the barrier, you need to be prepared to line up all day. One or two at a time can go for food or loo breaks. I have seen people have one person in line all day, then think that all their friends will join them right before doors open.
Important corrolary to "DON'T BE A DICK": don't show up late to a show and then try to push your way to the barrier! 'Nuff said.
Huge difference between having some alcohol, and drunk. If you are drunk, get out of the pit!
You must have been in some rather benign GA sections, if 75% of people had personal space! That has not been my experience at all.
Some gigs have coat/bag check areas, some don't. And expect to wait in line for ages after the gig to reclaim your items. If you plan to get up front on the barrier, you won't be able to leave to go check your stuff. Or get merch. Or pee.
Try a very small bag with a long strap you can wear over one shoulder and across your abdomen, you can keep your stuff away from pickpockets. Roya came up with the idea of a camera case at the Vegas gig, worked like a charm and has little pockets for cash, key, phone, chapstick, granola bar. Just stuff your camera into your jeans pocket.
We have the same problem at Seattle Sounders games. We real fans stand thru the entire game! People can get peeved, but oh well. At a post-season reception event for season ticket holders (thankfully all 25,000 didn't show up!) the coach specifically said how it energized the team that the fans stood thru the whole game! Same thing for a band: can you imagine how it would feel to be Muse and look out and see everyone calmly sitting in their seats????
You might want to warn the people behind you that you will be standing.
Plenty of us "Older Muse Fans" like the pit! The Electric Factory show had the most incredible surge I have seen at a Muse gig; I was in the balcony with 2 friends who can't do GA (one has severe osteoporosis, the other has had a kidney transplant!) and was in fear for my son's wellbeing!
But Madison Square Garden was the most civilized pit ever! I was on the barrier between Dom and Chris; no pushing, we had an envelope of personal space. It was so benign that I went to the loo between acts and came back to my barrier spot with no hassle! Very unexpected for NYC.
Older? You're what, 22?? Just wait until you're even older, you bruise more but who cares? It's worth it!
If you really have to get out, just let the people who need to move a bit to let you pass know that you are leaving, not trying to take their space. Just yell "Coming thru" or "gotta get out!" and they usually will make room for you to squeeze thru. It's usually easier to move parallel to the stage, toward the side, but head toward the back if that's the closest way out.
The whole idea is to enjoy the show. Some like the pit, some would rather be in seats. Don't let anyone make you feel like a wuss for taking seats (people will, you know), what's the point of being in the pit if you aren't enjoying the show?
Amen! Jump in rhythm with everyone else! It's hazardous to have someone coming down as you're going up, elbows tend to clobber the other person!
RUDE to the max! Someone that rude deserves whatever they get: elbows and knees to sensitive areas, a shoe to the groin, whatever. I am a very peaceful person, but that kind of behavior really ticks me off. (I have been on the receiving end of it before too, had to be pulled out of a pit because I just could not enjoy the concert).
The worst thing is, she got what she wanted, your spot up front. Kind of like giving in to a 2-yr-old's tantrum, just reinforces the behavior so she will do it again and again.
Too true. Usually it's easy to tell the difference; people pushed onto you typically apologize! So if you are pushed into people, tell them you're sorry!
You don't have to go all the way back. My magic spot is about a third of the way back, in front of Chris, if I can't get right down front.