It's difficult to say anything cause you will always end up sounding like a creep. But people who post them should be expecting pervy comments anyway.

Thanks! Yeah, my hair needs a cut soon. But nothing drastic.

Tom-toms are called "shime"[sHI-meh] ("meh" like the "me" in "merry"). We switch around. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses but most of us can play all parts (but we have been playing for around 15-16 years). You should definitely try if you can! It's a bit tricky in the beginning but it's fun. Rhythms come much easier if you have western drumming experience. You'd probably be excellent on a shime.