Thank you ^_^ Then I'll upload it to our 'proffesional' website

Yeah I do get the point. I'm too kind (oh that sounds so extremely wrong to say about myself ) so I almost never end up in fights or argues. Too soon I'm like: okay, lets do it your way if you so damn hard wish to. When I'm agry or irritated on a friend of mine, I talk about it with my mom. Then I get everything out, dont make myself explode out of emotions and do not hurt my 'victum'. And next to that, my mom can help me out with a suggestion about handling the thing.

Half a month ago I was soo angry at my work, for not being clear enough about things and sms me at the last minute for me to fix it. I was happy it was a sms, sothat I could do like I hadn't received it yet/my mobile was off. Two hours later I was able to compose a nice message.

Oh, yeah. I know the problem. Happily they do somewhat talk about it in our colleges. But I have to learn a lot too. BTW, when do your tests start?

My syntaxisbook is just as big as this yellowpages thing too! And so will be the extra documents on the net for pragmatics also.

Well, our books are very old, and not translated to modern Dutch. So I have trouble reading them at times. Sometimes the lines look very understandable in the way they are written, but then I can't get teh clue of what has been told. <_<