Well we can speak about it later anyway dear, that reminds me any updates on when you might want to? So I don't know, I'd still like to do something for your birthday if you can, so don't think I'm being funny, just don't think the meet is for me. But if you want me to come of course I will, but wanted to run it past you. Well it makes sense if you don't use it!

Well that's what I mean, obviously hold off until you're here...but like sort it 2-3 weeks before we want to go, would have to sort accommodation as well...could stay at my family's, but it's like a 45 minute drive into the countryside from Manchester itself, so might be awkward at night. But we'll sort it of course, just putting the idea out there for now